Showing posts with label sibling love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sibling love. Show all posts

Friday, March 20, 2015

i got out the big camera

i don't even know how long it's been since i took real pictures of the kids.  and today, i still didn't.  but, at least i got out the big camera and captured a moment.  




i asked the kids to sit next to each other so i could get a quality shot.  but brady immediately wrapped a fuzzy sock around his neck and then abigail took one glance and decided to do the same.  the next picture i took was my favorite of the day.


the rest are just bonus for fun.










maybe since the weather is warming up, we'll have an opportunity soon to take some quality pictures.  in the mean time... these sure make me smile.

Sunday, October 6, 2013

street cred

my dad called last week and told me he got a shirt for brady.  he said abigail would think it was cool.

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 


he was 100% correct.

seriously.  despite what the following pictures would have you believe.

 
 
 
 
baby girl is just a little vigorous in her affections and luckily, brady is okay with that.

THANKS DAD!!!

Tuesday, August 27, 2013

BFF siblings


abigail always slept with her head jammed into the crib bumper... most often curled up with her little bum in the air.  brady sleeps like a guy... always sprawled out.  

she's kind of obsessed with hiding.  and this is what hiding looks like.

photography by abigail

my job manning two kids at the playground... just got easier.  not that it was terribly demanding to begin with... but still.

they have so much fun riding together.  hopefully that continues... forever.

gorgeous

sorry brady... not the most flattering angle.  but we know it's just a diaper.

hanging out, quick trip to the playground, lots of overlapping nap time. we'll call it a success.

Thursday, August 22, 2013

random day of pictures

wednesday was the birthday of my favorite eldest sister.  this is how i celebrated...

i still really love those cheese eggs on toast (have i mentioned that i add cream and it makes them simply to die for?!) but i have another breakfast favorite too...  oatmeal!  a half cup of oats, one cup water, 1/4 cup flax seed (i'm currently out, and so is costco, and i'm really not happy about this... it's healthy but really, it adds amazing texture) and microwave for 2 minutes.  then stir in a few shakes of cinnamon and some brown sugar.  a little whole milk, a little whipping cream (not whipped), and one whole peach cut up (or a cup of diced strawberries).  it is knock your socks off incredible.  i guess you could make it healthier if that's your thing but i like sweets/dessert for breakfast and this hits the spot.  i might even prefer it to peach cobbler.  similar but doesn't give you that gluttonous nauseous ioverate feeling.



abigail plays with her dollhouse all day long.  sometimes brady and i join in on the fun.  when we do, we all like to play with "our" dolls.  i'm the mom, abigail is the blonde big sister, and brady is the little baby boy (sadly, his doesn't come in blonde but he doesn't seem to mind).  and when christopher gets home, he's the dad.  we all know our place.


i gave abigail a haircut.  i love and hate it.  mostly hate it but it was necessary.  her hair barely grows (it's been the same since she was 18 months old) and so thin and fine.  it was growing longer on the bottom but not on the top and since it was so thin, it just looked like a stringy little mullet.  as her mother, i thought it was cute because it perfectly resembled my hair at that age but honestly, if i looked at her through unbiased eyes, it looked just plain bad.  so i cut it.  i evened out the bottom and gave her a little bob.  i kept as much of the length as i could (the right side was significantly shorter because she doesn't ever twirl knots with her left hand) while evening it out as much as i could.  chris says she looks like a boy and i say she looks like she has a helmet haircut.  anyways, it was necessary and so even though it totally changes her look and makes her look so much less like my baby pictures, i try not to cry about it too much.  someday it will grow, right?!


my friend, jodi, dropped off a few new nail polishes for me on friday (she's always getting fun stuff for abigail and me and dropping off delicious treats so even though my toes looked absolutely horrendous all week, i'm going to pretend it was just a coincidence).  as soon as abigail saw my freshly painted toes, she begged me to paint hers too.  it took a few days but finally happened and i painted her fingers too.  she looks so adorable with painted fingernails and it's such a flattering color.  so i'll try to forget the fact that she "ate off" all of the polish on her right hand.  it's just her toes and her left hand that are blue but it's still pretty cute.
 


i can't stop sneaking into brady's room to take pictures of him while he sleeps.  i hit the timer button on my baby app when i put him down and then when it's been between 15 and 30 minutes, i sneak in and take pictures of him.  he's just so adorable i can't help it.


abigail is all over the place.  there should be a support group for parents with three year olds.  em said her three year old is only good or bad.  abigail is allllll over the map.  good, bad, and every single thing in between.  lots of in between.  i am comforted though that she said her little girl was terrible at three but it completely awesome now.  it may be a long tunnel but there is a light at the end!  also, abigail would sooo greatly benefit from learning to tell me not to yell.


i'm an idiot.  my three year old still wants to sleep in a crib but i occasionally push her to try out her bed.  three times in the space of forty five minutes, she came downstairs.  three strikes you're out, so i put her in her crib and she came downstairs again.  it wasn't even until fifteen minutes later that it clicked and i realized she must have climbed out.  ha.  not a successful nap day.  (today started out with tantrums to nap in bed, getting out of bed, tantrums because i insisted on the crib, and then i broke down and gave her a binky and she fell right asleep.  struggles.)


this guy's naps have been shorter... like an 1h20 instead of 2h20.  my days have been much less productive as of late.


i put brady in his bumbo and then ran to my room for a minute to look up a recipe on my computer.  while i was doing that, i heard a thump from the kitchen and thought to myself "oh no!  brady fell out of his bumbo!" but when i listened, i didn't hear any crying.  so i thought maybe he'd just grabbed the thomas book that sits on abigail's little wicker toy basket and the book falling to the floor was the thump i'd heard.  umm nope.  it was definitely brady  jumping out of the bumbo.  and he was just happy as a clam about it.


monday morning my honey left for salt lake.  wednesday morning he flew from slc to st george for a quick meeting before coming home.  i wasn't expecting him until later and didn't have a real dinner ready so i told him i'd make him an egg salad sandwich.  he said yes, he'd like french bread and no, the bread didn't need to be toasted but he'd like his sandwich with a little bit of love on top.  that guy's texts always makes me smile.


i think greek yogurt tastes horrendous.  but that doesn't stop me from buying it when i find a good sale.  this time was my first buying the greek gods brand.  i got two containers... one plain and one vanilla honey.  reading the side of the vanilla honey container it said it was a good substitute treat in place of ice cream.  i scoffed because i know how bad greek yogurt tastes.  but when i tasted it, i was blown away (i later checked the nutrition label and it has a whopping 32 grams of sugar per serving... that's why it's so delicious) and repented... purposefully scooping it out to look like ice cream.  the funny part?  my christopher and abigail both independently made comments about how i was eating ice cream.  so delicious.  it is still "healthy" for you when it has 32 grams of sugar and 14 grams of fat per serving?!  because we polished off that 24 oz container of it in less than 24 hours.


abigail has never liked baths.  as a baby, she rarely cried and rarely laughed.  friends would always tell me how their kid was soothed or excited by bath time but abigail always seemed pretty indifferent.  that's the same story now except it's accompanied by an intense fear of washing her hair.  so imagine our surprise when chris was showering and asked abigail if she wanted to shower.  i wasn't there but apparently, she just immediately stripped down and got in!  chris called me in to see it.  you can't see the water in this picture but seriously?!  all over her hair, face, ears, and she was enjoying herself!  is it weird if your three year old still sleeps in a crib but has already graduated from baths to showers?  not conventional... we'll see how this pans out longer term.
 

sooo, although my very favorite part of the day was actually talking to liza on the phone... which i didn't get a picture of... because were talking.... the rest of the day was pretty great too.  happy birthday liza!  i'm glad your birthday was so awesome!

Friday, August 2, 2013

the mad cleaning day and genius parenting

my mother in law's parents were supposed to be staying with us til sunday (they came and slept here last night but apparently grandpa ed got a bad cough and doesn't want to get the kids sick so now they'll be staying at my in-laws for the rest of their visit) and as much as i said "i'm not going to go crazy, i'm just going to do basic cleaning and that's it" i couldn't hold myself to it.  so yesterday was a super intense cleaning day.  much needed though (i think that's one random thing i really like about house guests coming) because i was able to do a lot of things i've been putting off for no reason and i had a headache and low patience when i woke up and i think the cleaning and organizing gave me something to focus on and channel my energy towards.  like what some people say about exercising.  anyways, it was wonderful.  and i was the bipolar one in my relationship with my kids.  one second i'm obsessed with them and the next second they're driving me crazy.  more of the latter seconds though.  so the day was long and by sunset i was definitely ready to call it a day (even though i didn't go to bed til almost 3am... why do i do that?!?!) but it was productive and i'm calling it a success.  and i am 100% loving life today enjoying my clean house!

so here are pictures.  

iphone zombie pictures always crack me up
they're about the same width.  but one is twice as long as the other.
sibling playtime
words can not express my love for this face.  it is perfection.  with a light dusting of blonde wispies.

i had a HUGE parenting win in the "feeding brady solids" department.  brady is a great eater of baby food.  he loves it and i used to love feed it to him.  until his coordination and reflexes improved dramatically.  now, it makes me feel violent and suicidal.  well, maybe not suicidal but definitely violent.  like i literally want to throw and i frequently yell.  which is not good because abigail is very observant of this.  you see, i can take a spoonful of peas and wait five minutes for him to take his hands or bib out of his mouth.  as soon as i shove the spoon in his mouth, he shoves his hands and bib back in his mouth.  i pull them out with a spare hand that isn't holding a spoon, jar of baby food, or bib down (i think even an octopus would struggle with this job) and then they're just darting like a cat in the night with the speed of a cheetah.  i mean, like a cheetah in the night.  the most recent feeding, he had food on his face, in his ears, in his hair, on his hands and arms, on his shirt and shorts,  all up and down his legs, in his toes, and all over the bumbo.  and i had food lightly misted all over me from the mouthful of food that happened as he was blowing bubbles.  

i frequently joke about needing a baby straight jacket for mealtimes but that last feeding made me think it through a little more.  christopher said "well, why don't you swaddle him before you feed him?"  i'd considered this but didn't think he would be able to sit upright if he was swaddled.  but then a day went by and i didn't feed him any solids because i just knew i couldn't handle it without yelling and i went to bed feeling guilty for being selfish and not feeding my baby.  i needed a solution.  sooo, next time i needed to feed brady, i got a pair of abigail's leggings and used them to tie brady's arms so he couldn't move them.  a modified swaddle of sorts.  and then i stuck a bib on him and plopped him in the bumbo.  he was the happiest homestarruner baby ever.  and it worked so well that i told abigail she could feed him as much as she wanted.  

and then i hung out and took pictures of it all.  a dream come true.
he is gorgeous, is he not?  even with oatmeal all over his face.  his features are perfect and beautiful.
i love that abigail loves hats.  i'm loving this mickey hat.  right up there with her pink hobo hat.
and i looooove that she opens her mouth when she's getting him to take bites.  and that she uses the spoon to wipe the extra from his chin.  and that she coaches him through it with "open your mouth brady.  okay, good job."  he loves her so much.
the straightjacket.  i layed him on the waistband of the leggings and the leg parts went around his arms and tied behind his back.  so simple.  i should have done this a month ago!
and see how happy he is with his straightjacket?  his bib was almost perfectly clean (probably would have been untouched if i had been feeding him instead of abigail) and he only had food around his mouth.  that's it.  no oatmeal foot scrub this time.
the pictures look serious but they were all giggles.
and i didn't even see this gem til long after the fact.  tongue extended.
and then everything that's normally cute like "mommy, i'm going to show you all of my cards" was not that amusing because i just wanted everything to be all put away.
and again in the kitchen.  "tomato" "purse" "door" "present" "what's this one, mommy?"
 but we made it through and all was right with the world.  brady did so well being neglected as much as he was and abigail made sure to break out her preciousness ("mommy, let's read all of these books together!") at just the right times to keep me sane.

and here's a video.  i started doing a video by accident but just went with it.  sadly, i didn't get much of the feeding because baby girl got a speck of baby food on her hand and had to clean it off immediately.  


there are definitely pros and cons to her ocd.