this morning started out really great. slow and low key. baby and i didn't even get out of bed until close to 10:30. so really, we were on track for an amazing day. we ate breakfast and played dress up... compromising on the clothes baby got to try on. then it went south. baby found a travel size bottle of lotion she wanted me to open but that would be disastrous so i held my ground with a firm no way. HUGE tantrum. and it continued on and on and on. this baby is obsessed with lotion. and chapstick and a few other things... but lotion is high on that list.
anyways, whenever baby is getting out of control, i find that the very best solution is to inundate her with love and attention. it's normally because she knows i'm giving her the shaft. so i let her choose not to put a shirt on and when she insisted on not just a ponytail or a bow but a ponytail with that certain enormous giant flower (disclaimer: this was a regift that my friend gave me when baby was born. her mom had gotten some giant flowers for her daughter who hated them. so we have a bunch of these but baby has never worn it. promise.) so since we weren't leaving the house i granted her topless self that wish and she was just as happy as could be about it.
and then we ate lunch.
| that pile of corn on the right used to look just like that pile of taco soup on the left. |
and then for the few minutes between lunch and nap, we played peekaboo.
so there you go. that was our "morning." which was actually more like 10:30 til 2:30 if you can call that morning.
and here's my bit of unsolicited advice: if your kid is driving you nuts or having yet another meltdown. try dropping everything and just focusing on them. i stayed up til after 11 tonight doing dishes and cleaning and i wanted to have a panic attack today with how dirty my house was, but y'know what? it was totally worth it. because every time i give baby girl 100% of my attention, even if it's just for a few minutes, i love her more and more and i love my life more and i am just happier overall as a result of it. end of story.
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